One of the most widely-read posts on my little site is the first interview I did for Down The Line magazine in 2010 where I publicly discussed not being able to accept the tenets of any version of Christianity any longer. In 2017 I was approached by Doug Peterson to do a follow-up interview, published in July, 2017. Here is that interview. Continue reading
Category Archives: Lovism
The Bitter Truth Podcast
I had this really fun discussion with longtime friend and musical troublemaker Abe Abdelhadi, wherein we liken leaving religion to death by a thousand paper cuts while increasing compassion for those we strongly disagree with. We also consider the critically important ways to sprinkle correctly pigeon blood while asking, “This is the book we get?!” Continue reading
My Last Interview Before Coming Out
MySpace was still a thing in July, 2009 when I received a request for an online interview. I was in a very strange and transitional place. My Christian house of cards had suddenly fallen and I had just realized that I could no longer consider myself a believer in any meaningful sense although I still had questions; lots of questions. I had told nobody about my current thinking. Continue reading
Five Things I’m Grateful For
I never play well with these viral Facebook things, but when my daughter tags me and when it’s about gratitude, well, I simply must relent. It comes at a fertile time too, Continue reading
Six Things I Learned While Hiking Waterfalls
Having just returned to Virginia from Phoenix, and perhaps because I was missing the Pacific ocean this summer, I found myself pining for water. With nothing pressing on my schedule I decided to spend the weekend hiking some of the waterfall trails in the Shenandoah National Park. Continue reading
I Am Your Father, IV – Our House
This has been a good old house. My family moved in when I was 14 and my father still lives here. Every once in a while he talks about downsizing and moving to a smaller, more manageable place. He never will. Continue reading
I Am Your Father, III – Your Attention, Please.
I often feel that apparently unrelated events in my life seem to converge around certain points in time around specific themes. I don’t think there’s anything supernatural about that. I think we Continue reading
God, Cigarettes and Sadness
I felt like I had lost my best friend. Some of my friends had told me they had felt the same way when they went through it. It didn’t stop me though. I knew what I had to do and there comes a point where enough is enough. Continue reading
Love, Not Religion, Is the Big Umbrella
The Pope made quite a stir last week when he said that even atheists are redeemed and can meet Catholics on the bridge of good works and love. To a former Catholic like me Continue reading
Science, Religion, And Knowing What Is True
We’ve heard them all. Science is a religion. It takes more faith to believe in science (or the big bang, or evolution, or an old earth, or climate change, or…) than it does to believe in God. Today brought another set of comparisons of science to religion and religion to science in a Facebook discussion but from a different angle. Continue reading